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Interested in BDSM? How to Play with a Male Partner

Bondage sex has gotten a lot of attention in the mainstream media thanks to several big name films that have come out in the last 10 years. That’s gotten many people more interested in the fantasy and considering experimenting with the idea of adding bondage to their role play or sex lives.

However, not every couple wants to play out the man dominating woman scenario. Sometimes couples want the male to be submissive instead of the women, and there’s nothing wrong with that. It also works for same sex couples. Most people just don’t know where to start!

Use this guide to help you learn more about BDSM sex and how you can dominate a male partner so you both enjoy the experience.

Keep Lubricant On Hand

Many people who fantasize about bondage sex and submissive men think about anal play, and that can be fun for both partners. However, the fact is that many men have never really had much experience with this type of anal sex. For that reason, you’ll want to keep a lot of lubricant on hand and go very slow when you start playing with toys.

When you first start out you’re going to want to pick out toys like small anal beads or small anal plugs before you graduate to dildos. That way your partner will feel comfortable and won’t associate that type of anal play with any pain.

If it hurts him it isn’t going to be much fun for either of you since you’ll have to stop and start all over again.

Use Cock Rings

Cock rings are a sort of ubiquitous sex toy that a lot of men who have experimented with toys and sex before have worn. Many men even own cock rings that they regularly wear, or they use the silicone type that’s more disposable.

When you’re trying to control a partner in bed in a fun way, you might want to step up to something a little bit more interesting and appealing like aluminum cock rings. An aluminum cock ring tends to look much nicer than a silicone or rubber one, and most men find them comfortable for longer wear than the other types.

Buying an aluminum cock ring can be tricky though, so make sure you test the right size with a cheaper plastic or silicone version before you order.

Custom Ordering a BDSM Collar

BDSM collars are wonderful ways to establish trust and intimacy with your partner. That said, if you’ve never custom-ordered one before, there are a few things you should keep in mind before hitting “send.”


Pull a tape measure around your neck so you’ll be able to talk specifics when ordering your collar. Keep in mind that this is the interior number, the absolute minimum length you’ll need for the collar to fit comfortably.


Most BDSM collars come with some kind of lining to keep it from chafing the wearer’s neck. It can be everything from fur to velvet, so the choice is entirely up to you. Just beware that some linings are easier to clean then others.


How much can you afford to spend on a collar? Don’t forget you’ll also need to pay for shipping, cleaning and maybe even re-fitting costs. On the other hand, a good collar is an investment you’ll only have to make once, so maybe you want to splurge a little.


Are you looking for a traditional leather collar? Or does your play require something waterproof or shockproof? There are dozens of different materials that can be shaped into collars, so don’t be afraid to look around until you find something that speaks to you.

If you’re serious about ordering a custom-made, high-quality collar, these are the tips you’ll need to dream up something something. Click here for more information about ordering a personalized BDSM collar.

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I have to say, I fell in love at first site. However, I am not much of a fan of sex toys myself but my husband is so I decided to surprise him with one that might be stimulating for me as well. I bought him the RubiXXX C2 Kameleon Cock Ring; it comes in blue, silver or red. I chose red because it just looks the best in my opinion. As soon as my husband tried it on, he could already feel a difference in his penis size and even said that he could feel that his orgasm was stronger as well. I was so surprised myself on how much sexual pleasure it gave me as well that the very next day I went back online to Hot G Vibe to find me some really great sex toys too!

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